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mardi 21 août 2018

Patience And Tenacity Of Purpose Are Vital In Achieving Personal Goals

By Debra Nelson


The history of mankind is littered with individuals that had a lasting impact upon society. There were legendary fighters, leaders, scientists and artists that all changed the way humans think for centuries to come. Many academics wondered whether all these people shared certain traits and whether there are actually traits that are vital to success. It turns out that there are. Among other important characteristics, patience and tenacity of purpose seems to be the vital ingredients of success.

Being patient means that one has the ability to wait, to face problems and to deal with them calmly, to endure difficulties without annoyance and to refuse to allow circumstances or other people to make one lose faith. A patient person does not complain or try to blame others for his problems. He deals with them. This is a very helpful skill and only people that know how to be patient can actually deal with the many frustrations that life routinely offers.

Being patient should not be confused with waiting idly for something to happen. A fisherman sitting for hours on end in his boat may be seen as patient. However, just sitting there is not actually being patient if he has not prepared his bait and cast his line. Only once he took action, by preparing his bait and by casting his line, can he be described as patient while he waits for a fish to bite.

A person that is tenacious pursues a specific goal single mindedly. He does not allow himself to become distracted by other people or by difficulties. He believes in his goals and he pursues those goals in the full expectation that he will achieve them. In the process he will never give up or lose hope. His determination is steadfast and nothing will sway him from his course.

Tenacious people are often viewed as stubborn idealists. This is not the true meaning of being tenacious. True tenacious people have very clear and achievable goals and they simply mean to achieve those goals regardless of circumstances or any other interfering factor. They are not fools and they never pursue unrealistic goals. They believe in themselves and they firmly believe in the fact that they will prevail.

The combination of being both tenacious and patient is a very powerful one indeed. Such a person will set very specific goals and perform all the actions necessary to achieve that goal. He will deal with setbacks calmly and rationally, never losing faith in his ability to achieve what he set out to achieve. In combination, these two characteristics define a person that is, on the one hand, single minded but also, on the other hand, able to deal with problems.

Contrary to what many people believe, it is perfectly possible to unlearn negative traits and to acquire positive ones. One can definitely learn how to be tenacious and patient. Disciplines such as yoga and meditation can be of great help. There are also numerous internet resources and books on this subject. All one needs is the will to improve in this area.

It is important to understand that tenacious people are not foolhardy and patient people are not lazy. Edison was tenacious in his pursuit of inventing the light bulb and he remained patient when thousands of experiments failed before he finally succeeded. He never gave up and he never lost faith.




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