I:0:T Temper tantrums are not usually viewed as totally preventable and curable. Most parenting "experts" will unapologetically say that temper tantrums are normal and natural, and a strongly unavoidable part of parenting children. They will, however give you hints about preventing some tantrums by being diligent in avoiding tantrum triggers such as frustration, hunger, and tiredness.
You might decide to continue thinking that tantrums are unavoidable and here to stay, simply because parenting experts throughout generations continue to tell us they are. If so, you won't get any argument from me. I'll just stay quiet like I've been over the past thirty-four years while impatiently preparing for sharing my tantrum prevention and elimination secrets with others. But if, however, you can open your thinking to the probability that temper tantrums could actually be 100 percent preventable as well as curable, I'm belatedly ready to share.
My first five children all threw temper tantrums...my last eight children didn't. My fifth, at 14 months of age, was forever done with throwing temper tantrums in a week or so once I figured out what I should change in the way I parented. Since that time I've persistently and thoroughly tested out my temper tantrum elimination and prevention techniques on my own children, and I've assessed most of the mainstream parenting advice through a forty-year period.
For examples, I figured out how to achieve overall cooperation from toddlers, how to quite easily extricate myself from the arguments kids and teens rope parents into, and how to figure out the precisely perfect duration of children's groundings. Also, I've been able to detail the reasons why time-outs are a highly dysfunctional discipline method, one that isn't nearly as beneficial as others are.
I share with other parents, all of those parenting skills, plus more. The biggest thing I give, though, is the curative and preventive methods needed to totally eliminate temper tantrums from children's behavioral repertoire.
You might decide to continue thinking that tantrums are unavoidable and here to stay, simply because parenting experts throughout generations continue to tell us they are. If so, you won't get any argument from me. I'll just stay quiet like I've been over the past thirty-four years while impatiently preparing for sharing my tantrum prevention and elimination secrets with others. But if, however, you can open your thinking to the probability that temper tantrums could actually be 100 percent preventable as well as curable, I'm belatedly ready to share.
My first five children all threw temper tantrums...my last eight children didn't. My fifth, at 14 months of age, was forever done with throwing temper tantrums in a week or so once I figured out what I should change in the way I parented. Since that time I've persistently and thoroughly tested out my temper tantrum elimination and prevention techniques on my own children, and I've assessed most of the mainstream parenting advice through a forty-year period.
For examples, I figured out how to achieve overall cooperation from toddlers, how to quite easily extricate myself from the arguments kids and teens rope parents into, and how to figure out the precisely perfect duration of children's groundings. Also, I've been able to detail the reasons why time-outs are a highly dysfunctional discipline method, one that isn't nearly as beneficial as others are.
I share with other parents, all of those parenting skills, plus more. The biggest thing I give, though, is the curative and preventive methods needed to totally eliminate temper tantrums from children's behavioral repertoire.
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